have any of u had what would normally be a highly stressful situation that would get you paniced and all. let alone the fact the situation is something that could change ur future. but instead of stressing out u are calm, relaxed and detached from ur self. do u then notice that u question who u are as a person. and what u should do for ur future. do u question ur values, your morals, everything about u. and then if u do all that do u change.

I am stressed out all the time, calmness is a rarity for me. However, there have been situations where I questioned my morals, values, and beliefs, and sometimes changed them. No, thats not quite right either. After a few particular situations I was in I learned to challenge my morals, values, and beliefs as often as I can. Sometimes I change them, sometimes I keep them, but I try as much as possible to keep aware of their benefits and drawbacks, and keep an eye out for facts that might have an impact on them. I am no-where near perfect at it, but I feel it helps to keep as good a handle as possible on the strengths and failings of the ideas you live by.

Where you in such a situation recently?

yeah.

Panicking sets in motion a lot of different reaCTIONS, MOST OF THEM AIMED AT eliminating SUCH AN "UN0NICE OCCURRENCE" IN THE FUTURE. tHUS THE SELF-DOUBT, ANALYSIS, ETC...

its late and i am insanely tired yet oddly awake, alot is going thru my head and with all that is going on with me and all my firends, i am attempting to stay calm as much as possible buit that only resulted after talking with ...

so everyone has there way; and we change/adapt to the enviroment around us, sometimes it is bad adn a percentage is good and it seems like knowing some of my experiences and troubles that i went thru to get myslef to this point, i can count on the ones i care most for and knowing that they will always be by my side thur the thick and thin.

oh my that is sounding very EMOTIONAL and so i am going off to curl up adn let out all the tears forming in my eyes and think of taking to heart all of what i wrote and reflect on my own semi advice.

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its late and i am insanely tired yet oddly awake, alot is going thru my head and with all that is going on with me and all my firends, i am attempting to stay calm as much as possible buit that only resulted after talking with ... so everyone has there way; and we change/adapt to the enviroment around us, sometimes it is bad adn a percentage is good and it seems like knowing some of my experiences and troubles that i went thru to get myslef to this point, i can count on the ones i care most for and knowing that they will always be by my side thur the thick and thin. oh my that is sounding very EMOTIONAL and so i am going off to curl up adn let out all the tears forming in my eyes and think of taking to heart all of what i wrote and reflect on my own semi advice.

ahh hunni we r all here for you alrite? ull get through wat your going through and just think to next time dis week all shall be back to its usal

take care mate(})

luv ya

Truth be told I thikn I had quite alot at the peak of puberty (don't laugh), but now... not so much, very rare infact. Most things are clear, but there arew few things which I keep bouncing in my head.

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Truth be told I thikn I had quite alot at the peak of puberty (don't laugh), but now... not so much, very rare infact. Most things are clear, but there arew few things which I keep bouncing in my head.

how old r u? how long ago was it? do u really know what it is like to b a girl?

Kath'ay, i was not jsut thinking of myself, partially but i know others out here are having a rough time too.
a new day is a fresh start.

No, I don't what's like to be a girl, ain't easy for boys either.
I'm 15 years old. The peak I was talking about migh't've been around my 13-14 years mainly on the 8th grade.

well lucky u. i have no doubt in my mind that it is harder for girls then guys. but that doesnt mean that i think us guys have it easy.

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well lucky u. i have no doubt in my mind that it is harder for girls then guys. but that doesnt mean that i think us guys have it easy.

i didnt say u guys had it easy
i just rekon girls r looked at more to b more dffiernt i mean i dont know like girls r meant to look near at everything. they care more ...i dunno
watver

woah... this thread is starting to head towards one that i was going to start soon...

i say no one has it easy... in this society you hear more about the girls then the guys.

the image is that girls are more sensitive, and can get hurt more easily. the guys are given the 'I'm so tough' and indestructible and can do waht i want image. that is at least tha is waht i see and hear

eek

and its the way its almost always been...

ekk

But are we the sort of people who just stick to the mold?

HELL NO!!!
but most of the guys on here still dont go arround feeling sorry for themselves and being pitiful and throwing their problems arround so that other people will feel sorry for them. thats what i was doing and it was bloody pitiful of me.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmhm

HELL no AL! it was gud of u to start this, sooner or later i would have done something like this.

and it is good to get it all out of ur system now then later after it got all built up to the extreme...

never give up mate!
miss ya